"Know that you literally are where you are supposed to be. You are learning this stuff exactly when you are supposed to. You have to learn some stuff before you move on."
My mom said this to me earlier this week. I was venting to her about different problems in my life that I'm too hard on myself about. During this specific conversation, I was feeling discouraged and frustrated with myself; I felt that I wasn't living up to my highest potential. I was looking for life to happen an exact way and it was increasingly straying from this ideal I had in my mind.
This quote from my mom made me stop in my tracks. I had never thought about it this way before. Even though I tried not to, I always held high expectations for my life which inevitably led to constant disappointments. This quote really spoke to me because it told me to stop and just live life. By overthinking everything and having set expectations, I was refusing to let life truly happen.
After this conversation, I vowed to myself to strive to go with the flow and be open. Things may not always go my way, but at the same time, the best things in life happen unexpectedly. As long as I stay true to myself and continue to foster my important relationships, life WILL work out. It won't be easy to get out of my head, but the simple acknowledgement and acceptance of this tendency is the first step to allowing myself full freedom to live the best life possible. It may not happen the way I initially want it to; however, it has the potentially to be so much greater than that, making it all worth it in the end.