“Incredible change happens in your life
when you decide to take control of
what you do have power over instead of
craving control over what you don't.”
When I read this quote, it really struck me. In life, so many things happen every day that we simply can't control. People (including me) spend way too much time trying to control these unavoidable events, using up all their energy on something that won't ever change. This causes people to feel discouraged and unsatisfied with their life. This could all change if we spent less time on this and more time on acknowledging that a situation may not be ideal, but that we are strong enough to accept it and move on. Of course this can be very very difficult, especially if it's something like a family illness or a death, but it's necessary if you want to fully live your life without letting the event consume you.
I think another thing I overlook a lot is that I CAN control what I focus on and what I make my priorities in my day to day life. I tend to become frustrated with people who don't make an effort to keep up their friendship with me. I spend way too much energy trying to keep it alive when maybe, right now it's just not meant to be. Instead of doing this, I could easily be focusing on the amazing friendships I do have and wholeheartedly appreciating them more.
Also, I tend to make my priorities things that really do not matter in the long run. I too often become so preoccupied with the hustle and bustle of mindlessly studying all week and going out all weekend that I don't stop, take a breath, and realize what's truly important. I refuse to go through the motions of life, so I'm definitely going to challenge myself to take more time to reflect, slow down, and go after what has real value in my life, like my relationships with friends, family, God, and myself.