Thursday, March 1, 2012

101 simple truths we often forget.


  • The acquisition of knowledge doesn’t mean you’re growing.  Growing happens when what you know changes how you live.
  • You can’t have good ideas unless you’re willing to generate a lot of bad ones.
  • A good idea without action is worth nothing.
  • Change is often resisted when it is needed the most.
  • Discipline is choosing what you want most over what you want right now. Read The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People.
  • People seldom do things to the best of their ability.  They do things to the best of their willingness.
  • You can’t change other people; you can only offer guidance, and lead by example.
  • Right now, there’s a lot you don’t know.  And if you never challenge your own beliefs, the list will never shrink.
  • If you’re talking to someone you don’t know well, you may be talking to someone who knows way more about the topic of conversation than youdo.
  • The most common and harmful addiction in the world is the draw of comfort.
  • Growth begins at the end of your comfort zone.  Stepping outside of your comfort zone will put things into perspective from an angle you can’t grasp now.
  • When you spend time worrying, you’re simply using your imagination to create things you don’t want.
  • It’s usually only as good or bad as you think it is.  Most of what we see is only what we think about what we see.
  • Most of the bad things you worry about will never happen.  Most of the bad things that do happen will have never crossed your worried mind.
  • Some circumstances are uncontrollable, but we can always decide how we react to those circumstances.
  • Those who complain the most, accomplish the least.
  • Whenever somebody discredits you, and tells you that you can’t do something, keep in mind that they are speaking from within the boundaries of their own limitations.
  • Every problem you have in your life right now is your responsibility, regardless of who initially caused it.
  • It’s not so much about finding opportunities as it is about creating them.
  • Having a plan, even a flawed one at first, is better than no plan at all.
  • Paving your own road is intelligent only if nobody has gone exactly where you are going.
  • What you do every day matters more than what you do every once in a while.
  • What you don’t start today won’t be finished by tomorrow.
  • If you’re waiting for the perfect conditions, ideas or plans to get started, you’ll never achieve anything.
  • Doing something and getting it wrong is at least ten times more productive than doing nothing.
  • Putting something off makes it instantly harder and scarier.
  • You cannot change what you refuse to confront.
  • If you keep doing what you’re doing, you’ll keep getting what you’re getting.
  • The harder you work, the luckier you will become.
  • Kindness and hard work together will always carry you farther than intelligence.
  • Lots of successful people have failed as many times as they have succeeded.
  • Failures are simply lessons that help you prepare for next time.
  • Being successful is a journey, not a destination.
  • To be successful does not mean you have to dominate others; it means you have to dominate your own potential.
  • Your success isn’t just about you.  It’s about how you positively impact the lives around you.
  • Being busy and being productive are two different things.
  • Being happy and being successful are two different things.
  • You have every right to be happy, but it’s up to YOU and only YOU to exercise that right.  Read Stumbling on Happiness.
  • Everyone you meet is better than you at something.  We all have different strengths.  What worked for someone else might not work for you.
  • When you’re worried about what others think of you, you’re really just worried about what you think of yourself.
  • The bad news: nothing is permanent.  The good news: nothing is permanent.
  • You don’t have to settle.  It’s simply a choice you make every day.  If you don’t like your life, then it’s time to start making changes and better choices.
  • There’s no such thing as ‘risk free.’  Everything you do or don’t do has an inherent risk.
  • No matter how smart you are, you will make mistakes.
  • Problems, when they arise, are rarely as painful and hurtful as the process of fearing them.
  • Confusion isn’t a bad thing.  It means you’re growing and thinking.
  • Just because you can doesn’t mean you should.
  • In the beginning, you need to say “yes” to a lot of things to discover and establish your goals.  Later on, you need to say “no” to a lot of things and concentrate on your goals.
  • Even if it doesn’t cost any money, it’s not free if it takes up your time.
  • No matter how you make a living or who you think you work for, you only work for one person, yourself.  The big question is:  What are you selling, and to whom?
  • Money makes life easier only when it’s yours free and clear.  The stress of financial debt can change a person.
  • The fewer possessions you own, the more you will use and enjoy them.
  • Life is not easy, especially when you plan on achieving something worthwhile.
  • There is good reason why you should wake each morning and mindfully consider what and who you will give your day to:  Because unlike other things in life - love, money, respect, good health, hope, opportunities, and many more - time is the one thing you can never get back once it’s gone.
  • Cutting your losses is often better than the alternative.
  • We sometimes do things that are permanently foolish just because we are temporarily upset.
  • Screaming at people always makes things worse.
  • Everyone likes a person who gets straight to the point.
  • First impressions are oftentimes inaccurate judgments of a person’s true character.
  • When you’re up, your friends know who you are.  When you’re down, you know who your friends are.
  • If someone wants you in their life, they’ll make room for you.  You shouldn’t have to fight for a spot.
  • When someone truly loves you, they don’t ever have to say a word.  You will be able to tell simply by the way they treat you over the long-term.
  • We rarely lose friends, we usually just figure out who our real ones are.
  • Just because one person doesn’t seem to care for you, doesn’t mean you should forget about everyone else who does.
  • Family isn’t always blood.  They’re the people in your life who want you in theirs – the ones who would do anything to see you smile and who love you no matter what.
  • Good looks attracts the eyes.  Personality attracts the heart.
  • In human relationships, distance is not measured in miles but in affection.  Two people can be right next to each other, yet miles apart.
  • Being nice to someone you dislike doesn’t mean you’re fake.  It means you’re mature enough to control your emotions.
  • If you aren’t happy being single, you won’t be happy in a relationship.  You have to create your own life first before you can share it with someone else.
  • Whenever you hate someone or something, you are giving that person or thing a piece of your heart.  Read The Road Less Traveled.
  • Life is too short to spend time with people who suck the happiness out of you.
  • It’s better to be alone than to be in bad company.
  • Saying “no” to right people gives you the time and resources required to say “yes” to right opportunities.
  • When you stop chasing the wrong things you give the right things a chance to catch you.
  • You can raise the bar or you can wait for others to raise it.  Either way, it’s getting raised.
  • In life you get what you put in.  If you want love, give love.  If you want friends, be friendly.  If you want money, provide value.  It really is this simple.
  • Cynicism might seem warranted at times, but it’s never useful.
  • Everyone dies, some sooner than later, and often unexpectedly.  To know this means you are alive, with a chance to make the time you have left count.
  • You are in competition with one person and one person only – yourself.  You are competing to be the best you can be.
  • Trying to be somebody you’re not is a sure path to self-hate, and a waste of the person you are.
  • It’s better to be disliked for who you are than to be liked for who you are not.
  • Giving up doesn’t always mean you’re weak, sometimes it means you are strong enough and smart enough to let go.
  • Sometimes you need to distance yourself to see things clearly.
  • You can’t make the same exact mistake twice. The second time you make it, it’s no longer a mistake, it’s a choice.
  • Not getting what you want is sometimes a wonderful stroke of luck.
  • You never have to deal with more than one moment at a time.
  • Many of the greatest lessons we learn in life we don’t seek on purpose.
  • You have to fight through some bad days to earn the best days of your life.
  • A harsh fact of life:  Bad things do happen to good people.
  • Regardless of the situation, the sun rises the next day and life goes on.
  • You never know how strong you really are until being strong is the only choice you have.
  • We end up regretting the things you did NOT do far more than the things you did.
  • We meet no ordinary people in our lives.  If you give them a chance, everyone has something amazing to offer.
  • Every passing face on the street represents a story every bit as compelling and complicated as yours.
  • People are not as beautiful as they look, as they walk, or as they talk.  They are only as beautiful as they love, as they care, and as they share.
  • Silence is often the loudest cry.  So pay attention to those you care about.
  • Making one person smile can change the world.  Maybe not the whole world, but their world.
  • Blowing out another’s candle will not make yours shine brighter.
  • No matter how many mistakes you make or how slow you progress, you are still way ahead of everyone who isn’t trying.
  • Things turn out best for people who make the best out of the way things turn out.
  • Life is short.  If there was ever a moment to follow your passion and do something that matters to you, that moment is now.
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